We believe it’s important to develop a culture where we can express our sexuality and yet not feel sexualised.
Pinky Promise is a collective of sensual deviants who create live-action hedonistic extravaganzas with a heart. From our pleasure parties & intimate workshops to our cabaret shows and festival stages, we continiously strive to create beautiful sensual experiences for folks to explore & heal their sexuality in playful ways. We believe all of us deserve to have the freedom, space, and permission to discover and be the fullest expression of ourselves, beyond the limitations and prejudices of existing societal structures. By sharing our knowledge, skills, and perspectives, we open ourselves up to a richer experience of life, ourselves, and each other.
We value real conversations & messy truths over polish, politeness, & pretence. By talking about things that aren’t easily or widely spoken about and bringing to light all of our contradictions, confusions, experiences and secrets, we clear the ground for new understandings and deep intimacy beyond shame, judgment, and constraint.
Pinky Promise is committed to making this space accessible and affordable for everyone, inclusive of people of all skin colours, gender expressions, sexualities, financial means, disabilities, body shapes and sizes. Inclusivity, diversity, and respect are at the fierce, beating heart of all that we do.
If you’re wondering what exists beyond the realms of what we’re conventionally taught about
love, if you believe that pleasure is a pathway as much as a destination, if you desire depth as well as dizziness within your relationships, if you know yourself to be kind and courageous, devoted and curious, and as foolish as you are wise then perhaps
Pinky Promise is for you!
You are here because you ask more of life than the status quo would have you enjoy, thinks sensuality should be celebrated rather than censored, and wish to support our mission in elevating outside-the-box content, and amplify diverse, underrepresented voices.
Our parties and platform aims to empower people with the tools to be exploratory with their sexuality, stronger with their boundaries and more nurturing with their connections. Please read our Agreement & Rules that have been put in place to ensure that everyone feels safe, celebrated and welcome in our spaces.
We explore
Together we can
Remove the shame and taboos associated with sexuality
Widen the access to supportive, nurturing & empowered spaces
Explore all parts of ourselves, our relationships, and what it really means to bathe in our brilliance.
Meet some of our educators
Marla Stewart
Alvin Collantes
Antuanette Gomez
Akira Nawa
Celine Baddie
Dr. Carolina Are
Zachi Brewster
Bolly Illusion
Lola Jean
Cruel Valentine
Robin L. Wilson-Beattie
A. Raheim White
Kitty Velour
Sydney Rae Chin
Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers
Kiki Maree
Sophia Rose
Ayo Babatope
Mx. Pucks A'Plenty
Midori