Although it is a fairly harmless disease, genital herpes can be very scary due to its stigma, and can make the people who have it feel incredibly alone and unworthy. Our writer talks about her experience with the STD and how to tell potential sexual partners to navigating sex during an outbreak.

Where as many people view sex toys as ways to further the sensations of pleasure and intimacy, they can however for others hold a great level of pain and trauma when trying to embed it within their sexual relationships. This article explores ways our writer overcame her previous trauma and began to use sex toys as an empowering tool to reclaim the domination which she felt was forced on her during an abusive relationship.

Antidepressents are a great tool to help sooth the mind through our darkest days. They can however zap your libido which is especially challenging for our author whose main job it is to write about their sexual escapades even though their sense of desire had all but vanished!

Have you ever found yourself behaving and indulging in many self-destructive behaviours, predominantly related to sex? Have you lost yourself in trying to make sure you were someone else’s perfect sexual fantasy. Our author explores ways to come back to yourself and heal past traumas through awakening and empowering your sexuality.

If you’re still caught up on gender roles, sexual spectrums, and where you exist along the binary, you’re apparently missing out.

Play parties can be perfect intimate spaces that offers a mirror into how we present ourselves to others and are charged with potential of self discovery and growth​. ​This article explores how they can be useful in bringing to light our shadow so we can experience feelings of being free, empowered and authentic in how we shape our life.

This article explores the role that performative masculinity has played in in making sense of the body and how the deep internalised misogyny & homophobia parading as the spectre of transgenderism has made its way into our bedroom.

Have you ever heard of this presumption that if you start taking anti-
depressants your sex life will end? What about “meds turn you into a zombie”, “you won’t have any emotions” and even “your shrink will dump you in the loonie bin”? Our author takes us on a journey to debunk these statements

This article explores the process of coming out as a queer nonbinary person during the pandemic and how our author found home in their body.

The lockdown allowed for many of us to try a new hobby or skill such as banana bread making or binge watching Tiger King. For others, it was attempting vaginal sex.

With the transition to a virtual relationship, our love languages have had to adapt and we have had to find new ways of expressing intimacy and sharing pleasure with our partners.

Who said you can’t have beautiful compassionate sex and also maintain adoring friendships?

We explore the workings of life as a fem dom and how to navigate the power dynamics in relationships

This guide explores ways we can find our boundaries and feel comfortable asserting them in a relationship